oomis, …the process needs to be re-evaluated so we can see where different HALACHICALLY ACCEPTABLE methodologies can be utilized.
That’s been done. Even the normative way which yeshivah boys now “date” (several meetings, outside of the home) was controversial when it first began, but it was deemed necessary, under the umbrella of “???? ???? ?????? ?????? ????? ?? ??? ??? ??????”, but nobody ever took it as far as you suggest.
No disrespect was taken, and certainly none was intended on my part either.