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☕ DaasYochid ☕
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passfan, What alerted you and how did you become aware of this age-gap cause over a decade ago?

A conversation with a brilliant talmid chacham. Until then, I had heard all (or at least most) of the theories bandied about in coffee rooms (real and virtual) everywhere; girls being too picky, boys asking too much money, “it’s much easier to be a good girl than a good boy”, etc. But I had one big “kasha” on the whole thing; why are there more girls around than boys – every time a boy manages to overcome these difficulties and gets married, he takes a girl with him! When he explained the age-gap/increasing population formula to me, a light went on in my head.

Was it a new chiddush at the time (to anyone – not you)

Not to him! 🙂

was anything done or was it just talk then?

Just talk, then. IIRC, NASI was a few years later.