i think she is not ready yet. she didn’t say she NEVER want to get marry…so speak with her, try to know why,… perhaps in few months she would want …
i have a friend on their 21’s and she “doesn’t want to get married now”. Sometimes she wants, sometimes no. She is not really ready. she always says “i’m young” , she want to finish her studies before…
Sometimes she had shiduch proposition, but she say NO, sometimes she say “not now” , “not him” , “i don’t feel this shiduch..so NO” …
Finally she didn’t date even 1 time…she is already 21’s, frum girl…and a lot of her friends & cousins get married even younger…but she is ok with that , she wants to live her life before wedding, go out with her friends …
Another friend said us before the yomim tovim (1 week before) , when we spoke about shiduchim & marriage , she doesn’t want now, she had time ( she was 19) , she is young… and 3days after succos, she was engaged … she told us , when we spoke she didn’t want to start shiduchim , but 1 week later she had an interresting proposition and she decided to start to date…Now , she will marry in less than 2 week…