And the berdichiver would mistama say that is why all the non frum men don’t wear tzitzis. (I’m not sure why he would say the non frum women do wear tzitzis.)
Good point.
There is a girl who sometimes comes to my weekday shachris minyan, and she wears tefillin and a tallis.
Why a tallis? She isn’t married!
So mistama the pshat is that she doesn’t wear a tallis kotton, so figures she should wear a tallis gadol for davening at least. I suppose that makes sense.
But why doesn’t she wear a tallis kotton then? Doesn’t she want to be like a man? I don’t know.
I’m also a bit surprised that she comes at all. If she would daven at home, she could pretend she is equal. But since she comes, she sees blatantly how she is not counted toward the minyan and other things. (One day this week we were 9 plus her.)
Plus, sometimes I spit on her, if I need to spit during davening.