Health you said,
“Stop using the word force. If she Wants a Get -notice the word Want, then they have the right to give the Get acc. to their terms. If she has no interest in a Get -she definitely can go to secular court for any custody, financial issues that occur during a divorce. She isn’t forced to do anything!”
That’s like putting a gun to someone’s head and saying: “If you want to live-notice I say the word want you should give me all of your money”, then claiming that you didn’t force the person to give you his money. I mean after all he could have chosen to die-right?