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There is something i don’t get, people are always saying oh its a guys world, girls are not getting dates,guy can afford to be picky etc etc Im a guy and ive been in the parshah for close to four years and only went out three times because over 30 different girls said no because im not a full time “learner” and here in israel that puts me at the same level as a bum which im not. im in yeshiva in the mornings and work the rest of the day. and the shidduchim that are getting redt are girls that went off the derech for a bit and came back, sort of. I mean why should i have to settle for a girl who has past when my only crime is that i don’t wear white shirts during the week and have a job.