The only fact I was provided is the fact that a 21 y/o woman cannot get a commitment from her male counterpart in the dating process.
No, she can’t get a male to even agree to begin the dating process (to go out with her). That was your mistaken fact.
BMG boys, for the most part, are just as able to make a commitment as anyone else, as evidenced by the very large percentage of them who get married within a year or two of starting to date. Your generalization that they are somehow unable to make a commitment was your mistaken conclusion.