Hi Gavra and Yichusdik,
I cannot speak for those people, but it seems to me that in one shul I go to there are so many FFB, not all, but noticeably many, who are socializing the whole time.
All I can say is that I know for me, there is not always inspiration and then I have to do the work because I made a commitment and I know better. I can only imagine if I were doing this since childhood, which I why I dont really judge them.
I was just commenting that it cannot always be assumed it is those who did not get a yeshiva background as a kid.
Basically, we all have to work to improve our committment, and that is not always easy for anyone for a variety of reasons, as you know.