OneOfMany-
Question: What does the concept of “kodesh atah b’muter luch” refer to?
What do our chzal mean when they say to “refrain from engaging in excessive conversation with one’s wife”?
There is, obviously, a concept which tell us that although something is mutter for you to do, refraining from doing so is praiseworthy.
Logician-
Frivolously, according to Ger they are to be avoided, unless obligated to do so.
Frivolously eating pretzels, according to all is ok.
My personal life is of no relevance to you. Thanks for asking.
I, for one, am not a fan of the ger way of life. But that’s their minhug. saying it’s non-nonsensical is foolish. They have there me’koros and rabunnim.