mortgage your homes to redo yourself entirely….mishugas.
get a flattering haircut. highlight the color if it needs some life to it. go to a classy dept store and have your face made up by a licensed cosmetologist and if you buy some of the products ask her to write down what to put where and how. dress in colors that are flattering to your complexion and size and always make sure your clothes and shoes are clean and pressed and shined.
this will go a long way without breaking the bank.