msseeker, thank you so much, I very much appreciate it.
Logician: “Are you so biased by your own situation that you can’t imagine that there’s someone otherwise compatible for you, who unfortunately is turned off by your situation, and that is causing you difficulty ? And that you are meant to have this difficulty, and grow from it ?”
Oh, I’m sure there are plenty of people who may be compatible, yet are turned off by my situation, but I don’t consider that a difficulty. I used to consider it a difficulty, but not any more. I’ve become aware of the reality that it is really a blessing. And instead of it being a difficulty that I can use to grow from, I see it as a blessing from G-d that I can also use to grow from, by showing my appreciation to Him for giving me such a blessing.