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WolfishMusings
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Wolf – jealousy is a normal, though undesirable, human trait. I would not demand of someone to be above jealousy in order to have the privilege of being my friend.

You can be jealous and still genuinely happy for the person’s good fortune at the same time.

The issue isn’t jealousy… the issue (as RedNails19 put it) is that she fears people won’t be happy for the person with the good fortune.

Jealousy is, as you point out, normal. Being *so* jealous that they aren’t happy for their friend’s good fortune (and would actually wish they didn’t have it) is not. Those types of people I don’t need as friends.

The Wolf