“we are gonna have a nanny”
Again, oh. Now, consider the impact of what this entails:
You are going to have a strange woman (most likely, a non-tribe member) make herself at home, 24/7, who will read the kiddies a bedtime story, hold their hand when the have a fever, wave goodbye to them as the bus pull away.
And from time to time, you’ll attend a school play, go to PTA, and kvel when the kids do something to make you proud.
But will the kids feel that way towards you? Or to Marisa?
Not to mention the impact Marisa will have on the general aura of the house.
Like I said, CS. There’s a lot at stake. Choose wisely.