Diddo to WIY.
From a guy’s point of view: As much as you got to be so close with that person, you have to realize that spending the rest of your life with him/her is a very specific match for you. Things may look good in the exterior and you set your mind on him/her, it still may not be the best shidduch for you. Who plans this all? Nobody but Hashem! Not the shadchan, the parents, or the dater him/her self.
I wish you & all daters much hatzlacha & should find their bashert b’karov mamish!