i date a guy , few months ago…
after the first date he said no for a “not valid ” reason. some people spoke with him and …nothing.
I was ok with that…and i try to see what i can learn of this “story”.
But sometimes, honnestly often ,i remember him , and some of his middos tovos, that i don’t see in every guy i can met or correspond to me..and i regret the fact we can’t go out another date and say yes/no clearly…
now i’m thinking about that , every day … i think , Hashem had His reasons, but its difficult to totaly forget this…