msseeker: I don’t force my wife to keep it. I also don’t force her to stay married to me. If she didn’t want to keep it, I wouldn’t have married her. If she wants to stop keeping it, I wouldn’t force her to do anything. I wouldn’t stay married to her, but she can do whatever she wants to do.
You say “under pain of divorce” like it’s the same as the harassment some people get in chassidic areas. They’re completely different.