Soleik – with all due respect for youself and your life’s accomplishments, I fail to get your point.
Yep, you both had hardships in life but that’s where it ends. Your story is yours and hers is hers the two stories don’t compare to one another.
You’re one that took responsibility from the get go. While she is one who wanted to shirk responsibilty… and the list goes on.
While I feel for her as she is still Hashem’s child, and I really wish she finds herself soon, I don’t consider her a victim to her life’s trials. She portrays herself as that to excuse the things she does. I think she considers herself a success for getting to this point that she’s been working on for probably most of her adult life. From the conversations I had with her, I don’t think this was any means an escape for her, although she wants to portray it as such to gain sympathy, I think that this was her goal from the get go.
Somehow I feel that you’re not getting my point.