ZK: “I STAND FOR HASHEM!!!”
Perhaps Hashem would prefer that you err on the side of loving His children. Do it the Berdichever way.
I see no reason to hate her, just her actions.
And you are bringing in Hitler. Again. That really disturbs me. It’s irrelevant that you are not actually making any direct comparison. (the Esav and Nimrod bit is also irrelevant but doesn’t disturb me as much, though perhaps it should).