All this being said, everyone loses his/her temper SOMEtime (except for Hillel HaZakein). We’re not talking about that type of temper. But someone who routinely loses it verbally and/or chas v’sholom physically (and especially when it is not really warranted), is a risky shidduch. One should investigate such a report carefully, to ensure it is not just L”H being spoken about the person, or even an exaggeration. But if it can be shown that the person has a continuing problem with controlling ire, then it might be better to look elsewhere for a spouse.
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