Reply To: How Can They Be So CRUEL!?

I am going thru this exact matzav and it is heartbreaking. A weak Yeshiva often means less strict about frumkeit. And these yeshivas often have many boys who are not doing well, and not yet wanting to. Maybe if my son was living at home I could manage that, but not from a different state. It is exactly what you are saying. A ‘not-top’ boy who is weaker but not ‘weak enough’ and has strong hashkofos has NO place to go.