I guess I don’t know you so I can’t help you with that. I think, though, that I’ve heard such things from other people. People seem to have this misconception that if they’re not the one who’s running the chinese auction for ____________ or fundraising for ___________ or arranging a program for _______________, they’re not doing something important and they feel like it’s not enough. I think I understand what you’re saying. Am I getting you? If yes, what I meant before is that if you’re doing the best you can at this point in your life of taking care of your family and doing YOUR best. People are asked why they were not the best they could’ve been, not why they were not as good as their neighbor.
For the people who do have the time and ability for the “big” things and are not doing them, well, they may not be reaching their potential. Every person has to do the his/her best with the circumstances that God has given to him.
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