More_2: I don’t really want to take this thread off on a tangent but I will answer your questions based on MY SIDE.People very often don’t give the total truth when it somes to shidduchim.
( Unpopular girl???) I was lead to believe she had friends, because people felt sorry for her.( so they lied) That is not true friendships. She was very antagonized by my sons social life. He had/has many friends! In all the YEARS of their marraige you can count on one hand how many times she got a phone call from any friend at all. She is only married to her own parents who have sabatoged her life! Nebach! Anyway back to the topic at hand, the reason I asked about the op’s school friends was trying to see if it was an issue then too? That might answer some of our questions.
By the way you could not be my ex- daughter in law because she never remarried, probably never will!Nebach!