one last word to daasyochid:
What i said was that- if you object to serving in the army- then the klal will not support you. You will be free of the army service and will be able to go out to the work force, if wanted.
This approach, btw, has been proposed by some Israeli politicians because they believe the present situation is financially destructive and a great amount of potential energy and contribution is now being squandered by not having the chareidim in the work force. So- be free of army servyce but you are on your own. Would you accept this?