I was not trying to be judgemental, what he said just actually does not make sense to me. Having a disagreement is not the sane thing as saying ” learn to spell” or ” do you k kw what grammar is?”.
I just remember in school learning about free will and what a big part of our lives it is. Ofcourse Hashem knows exactly what decisions and choices we are going to make, but they are ours to make and everything is not as clear cut as you make it seem.
On a different note I feel as though people In this thread are very very hung ho about jot going to games calling it assur etc.. But are defending those who look at shmutz and other bad things on line via the ” if your husband gets outed thread”. Which is worse? Studying up late while your wife is asleep looking at pornography or taking your sons to a baseball game?
Anyway.. Did not mean gone too judgmental before and I apologize.