scienceprogram – “Therefore, no matter what anyone here says about him seeing a therapist… is useless since your husband will not agree.”
Bad attitude. No, it’s not useless. The spouse now has to go to a Rov for the next step. Sometimes a Rov or his (husband’s) family members can pressure him to get help. If he still won’t listen, it’s now time for an ultimatum. This should only be done with the guidance of a Rov and/or therapist. The ultimatum is either you go for help or I’m leaving. It should Not be an empty threat. Again this step is Not something to do without guidance of a Rov and/or therapist!