Funny that the point of this thread is that what is realy importent is bein adam lachaveiro and not talkink L”H, but in the same time you make it sound that those who are makpid on c”y are not makpid on bein adam lachaveiro. How is that for not talking l”h?
And BTW aldough I have great Yiras Hakovod for R’ Moshe he is still not my poisek. If my rebbis thought me not to drink cholov stam then I”m not aloud to do so despite the gadlos of R’ Moshe.