todahrabba -“I don’t know how this happened but my friend just went out with someone on a first date who kept her in the car for all 3 hours and he didn’t say a word. This should never happen. EVER….”
Welcome to Adulthood. Things do happen in life that aren’t always in our control.
First of all, I don’t understand what you’re angry about -it supposedly happened to your friend?
Second of all, if it happened to you, while I understand it’s some relief to come to a public forum and let off steam – the public isn’t who your anger should be directed at.
Why did the Shadchan set you up with such a guy? Where did you get the info from about him? Did your family and friends not do the proper research? I hope your coming here to let off steam is Not in place of asking these people these hard questions!