2morecents: “the extra weight on a potential spouse should be a serious red flag regarding the persons middos.”
Praytell what middah? Please elaborate further.
Shein: “Girls don’t have much choice but to accept overweight bochorim, as their are more girls than bochorim in the shidduch market and thus the girls must take what is available or risk being stuck unmarried indefinitely.”
By that logic, a girl should accept a male mannequin in a dress shop since that’s “available” & we really don’t have many choices do we…?
The double standard here is making me sick.