Reply To: Perfect mate

torah613613torah: May I ask how old you are? I used to want all those things too, and I’m not saying that you should ever settle or cut yourself short, but, at the same time, you do need to understand that in reality, it may take 100s of years, scouring country after country, to find just one man who comes anywhere near what you described! I originally made this post to ask people not to describe their perfect man, but their perfect mate – the one who is perfect for them, flaws and all! Flaws make us human.