…the one I went to?
You’re wrong about bans and allowances. I don’t know if it really bothered the hanhala or not, but they definitely knew girls were on it and didn’t take any punitive measures. If someone brought a gun to school (or wore pants or broke any other “unspoken” rule), they would have. If you don’t have a rule and don’t enforce it, you can’t pretend that people are breaking it. Plus, you can make such assumptions about matters that are illegal/unequivocally assur, but not really with matters that are more than black-and-white.
Besides, my school quite sufficiently specific and thorough when it came to bans, so there was no need to read anything else into their policy.
Also, I didn’t make the point in order to cast their decision in a bad light. I was merely pointing out that it’s unlikely that they did it just for kicks. So calm down and stop trying to attack things out of context.