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A girl at 5’8” 180, although that may sound a little overweight if in shape and toned, thats what a woman is supposed to look like! Unfortunately, Yeshiva boys like their woman looking like well…. Yeshiva boys. Woman are supposed to be curvy!
“On the other hand, many girls are unrealistic about boys when it comes to money, jobs etc.(are they a professional? did they go to college?) That is being very external as well!”
Thats not being external, thats simply wanting stability. Granted no one can guarantee that just because Boy X went to Harvard has 3 Bachelors a Masters and a Phd, money will never be a problem, but a girl wanting that over say a guy who never went to school and will do whatever ‘comes up’ or mooching off his parents, that there is nothing wrong with.