girls (young ladies?) going out – ignore those guys who are only interested in a size 2 or 4; there are many other guys out there who truly don’t care (i’m not saying, not to put on makeup and dressing nicely, etc.), but the weight thing is really not for everyone such a big deal. a lot of guys truly don’t care, and you’ll marry one of those.
and no, pba, my brothers did not care – though i think all of my sisters-in-law are cute and/or attractive.
but, i think that me and my sisters are too much into caring about our weights. Boruch Hashem, my husband tells me all the time that he truly doesn’t care how much i gain (i won’t become obese) – i’m the one that it bothers. i’m the one so affected by our secular “education”.
i have a friend who was always over-weight. she divorced a guy who was abusive to her, but she said – her weight never bothered him nor her current husband. and she also was dieting her whole life, trying to lose weight.
so, no, pba, not everyone agrees with you.