Reply To: shidduchim and weight…..

fedex11214 –

“I personally am disgusted by overweight people be they man or woman. It shows recklessness on their behalf and if they are not responsible about their health which is of optimal importance who is to say they will be responsible of other endeavors. I don’t want to be involved with someone who shows such a lack of discipline ..and if I bust my you know what to be fit and healthy I can expect the same from my future wife.”

i can tell you from my personal experiance, that it has NOTHING to do with lack of discipline…..at least in my case. i have a thyroid issue and before i got it under control (which now it is, bh…) i was told by a dr. who specializes in this field that i could have been dieting to no end, (which i was…) could have been excersizing my brains out, and nothing would have helped. so before u go bashing all overweight ppl saying that they have no self discipline, or as u said, “being disgusted by them” just know that in many cases there are other factors, not just eating to much….(btw, im a very picky eater!)