Reply To: shidduchim and weight…..

“let me tell you I too have a thyroid problem and an incredibly slow metabolism so does that mean I should wallow in self pity and accept my face..the answer is no.”

first of all, i dont considar myself to be wallowing in self pity. and anyway, assuming you meant accept my fate, (i should hope u accept ur face..) it would mean wallowing in self pity should i choose NOT to accept it. i would always want to be what im not. that is not to say that i just sit back and let whatever happens happen. i too work like crazy, spend thousands of dollars in treatments, and excersise to no end. but every persons body is different and what works for you may not work for others. im really happy its working out for you. honest. and i hope u find urself a girl who meets all ur expectations.