New2thescene and YeshivaGuy –
That’s wonderful. Except the girls you’re dating are doing just that, PLUS working full time.
Face it; you’re going to be showered with praise, gifts and affection just for showing up (and having avoided running into bad publicity during the last 4 years). And you’ll be getting these things on the hopes that you turn out to be a decent human being and evenutaly a provider.
The girls you’re dating have already proved themselves.
You should be grateful they agree to date you, and not complain about how tough “the dating process is”
Oh, and taking tests? In my workday, I’m tested on every project. I mess up, I’m canned. Show me the last guy that got tossed from BM for not knowing his stuff. They assign you a weaker partner, a lesser seat perhaps, but you’re still promoted as the best, the top, the…
Contrast to girls, who if they don’t pass, they don’t graduate and they don’t get jobs. If they fail, they are cooked.
Shall I keep going?