” He can think she’s nice looking but he absolutely should not be attracted within the first minute, such a guy would seem unstable to me.”
So according to you all guys are unstable? Thats the way of the world, you may find it sick or disgusting, but thats pure human instinct. When you look at a guy, do you not know immediatly weather your or attracted or not?
Im not sure why you think im saying guys know the girl is the one immediatly based on her looks, but its a starting point and it is important. Obviously its not the only factor when deciding who to marry. I dont think any guys would disagree on that