@ pacman: where is the emunah in your first post? just because az said something, it becomes written law? doesn’t Hashem have a hand in this? i’m not saying that there arent ppl who never got married. what i am saying tho, the more ppl who leave this all in the hand of statistics and age gaps, and what not, the bigger the crisis we have. but that’s not a shidduch crisis. that is an emunah crisis. the worst one ever. which is probably why we are where we are today.
WAKE UP AM YISROEL! TRUST IN HASHEM! DO YOU THINK HE WANTS TO CAUSE YOU PAIN? NO WAY! YOU ARE HIS PRECIOUS CHILD AND HE TAKES CARE OF YOU LIKE YOU CAN’T EVEN BEGIN TO IMAGINE! SOMETIMES, WE JUST ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND WHY HE DOES WHAT HE DOES. BUT IT IS ALL FOR OUR ULTIMATE GOOD. YOU JUST HAVE TO BELIEVE!
sorry, i know you all hate caps, but when i am trying to bring an important point across, i will use it.
singles, don’t lose hope. imagine this scenario: you just come home from another date and basically the guy/ girl calls it off. you are emotionally drained and feel like you can’t handle life anymore. and you go into your room and you cry bitter tears into your pillow. MAKE IT A TFILLA! DON’T WASTE YOUR TEARS! MAYBE HASHEM JUST WANTS ONE MORE TFILLA WITH TEARS AND THEN HE WOULD SEND YOU YOUR DESTINED ONE! but there is no way you can know. so try anyway, it obviously can’t hurt to try. and you might be very pleasantly surprised at the outcome. remember HASHEM LOVES YOU!
when you want something just PUSH- Pray Until Something Happens!
and have emunah! for if you don’t believe, how do you expect to have a fulfilling and happy life????? don’t let go of that emunah, and a special deep relationship with Hashem!!!!!!