Pac: except that you are incorrect. Please do NOT put words (posts) in mouth. Their are far more critical factors (and thus effective methods) than focusing on the freezer rule that you are referenceing. Would changing that help as well? Perhaps by a few months. (though there is a thought that it might not.) Either way that’s unlikely to be accomplished any time soon and that’s not what i’m referencing. If fact if criticism was to be leveled they would be the last since it isn’t they who determine at what age the boys come to their yeshiva……….
Here’s a question to ponder…. IF boys returned from EY on average earlier than they do now and began dating not a day later nor a day earlier then they where ready. What do you think would result. Would the average age at which they begin dating go up or go down……
hello: 99 please indicate what I have done to date or encouraged to “pressure” boys to date before they are ready????