Reply To: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up

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July 20, 2011 10:42 pm at 10:42 pm #909458
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droid:

as you dug up

“How about NOT rushing to redd them shidduchim to all the 22-23 year old guys?”

That is what i said then and what i continue to advocate now as well. The people REDDING the shidduchim should focus on the girls who didn’t just start dating – as opposed to rushing to set up the girls straight out of sem.

I don’t believe I suggested that the girls themselves or their parents should hold off from dating. (they wouldn’t listen so why waste time with that.)

Do i think it would be good if overall girls began dating chanuka/pesach after sem instead of the minute the got off the boat… yeah i think that would be good – both on the individaul level and on the communal level. However to dade nothing has been done directly on that issue. Having the shadchanim focus on the girls who didin’t just start dating is a indirect effort on that same issue.