Something here reminds of a story.
Some fellow dies and goes up to heaven. He sees there are two gates. One with a sign “henpecked husbands” and the other “not henpecked husbands”.
He sees the line for henpecked husbands is unbelievably long. The other line has just one person there, lets call him ??? Lupowitz.
The newly deceased person goes over ??? and says “Mr Lupowitz, you must be a very happy man, you are on this line”.
??? Lupowitz says back “sure, this is where my wife told me to stand”.