True. But the nosei kalim dont seem to apply that to 3 year old girls(who are yelados, not nashim, but whatever). I just checked.
if you read the rest of the seif, he goes on to discuss all the things that are assur with arayos. presumably he was just introducing the discussion about arayos.
RH: The Shulchan Aruch states, l'halacha, to -quote- "stay far far away from women."
Reb Doniel, are you saying that in a place where it is normal that it is ok to do what some people here would say is not tzneus?
Also, Do I know you?