“First of all, why did you say “disagree” -when I just posted that I told my girls to light (if they wanted to) and not my wife?
Are you not able to comprehend my post?”
B”H Health, I am fully compis mentis (sp?) and comprehended your post quite well, thank you. Nevertheless, you did post the following:
“OOmis -LOOk Up! Plenty of Shittos saying Women and Girls Should Not light and it isn’t Mehudar.”
Perhaps I should have said that my Rov disagrees with those SHITTOS (and not you personally for having mentioned them), and that he believes it IS mehudar. In any event, we do not do it. I do doubt that people cannot tell what day of Chanukah it is if there are several menorahs lit. It’s pretty obvious, if the menorah is visible. And for the sake of those who pass by and see the menorahs, the mitzvah of pirsuma d’nisah is on the pirsumah itself isn’t it, not in how many candles are burning.