Shmendrick “You are disturbed when discovering that your kiyum hamitzvos is less than stellar; that there are halochas that you never heard of; that others have a frummer lifestyle…that bothers you, you become disturbed, and that is a good thing.
No need to start howling with name calling simply because you have became a disturbed individual. Use the opportunity for growth and simchas hachayim!”
Wow! How do you know me so well? You must be one of my neighbors.