Reply To: Suggesting Shidduch for………yourself?!

s2021

Actually, I can still meet him and have a shadchan involved can’t I?

“If theres no shadchan at all thats not shidduch dating..

I just want to cheat the system a lil..

Have the naturall attraction and feelings develope (with the safetey of a shadchan when needed) but without all the deception and garbage that comes from hearing about him from the shadchan’s friend’s niece’s aunt’s sister’s cousin’s neigbor’s roomate’s cupcake…… “

good point! cheating the system isnt so bad i guess cause the system leaves much to be desired!