“But make no mistake, they are providing a service for the all of us.”
I strongly object to your implication that these people are acting on my behalf.
I handed my wife a kesubah in which it says “v’ana eflach v’afarnes yasichi… k’hilchos guvrin yehudain d’falchin um’farnesin es n’sheihon b’kushta”
“And I will work and support you… LIKE THE WAY OF JEWISH MEN THAT THEY WORK AND SUPPORT THEIR WIVES HONESTLY.”
Someone who protests those who are trying to help people go “in the ways of Jewish men” are not providing me with a service.