It’s a pretty stupid and selfish thing to say. Everybody has their trials as Hashem sees fit to let them endure at whatever level. Having had a quite challenging upbringing myself I certainly know as well as anybody that children, even after they’re grown up, continue to feel pain from the very real hurts that family relationships can include. It’s how we respond to the hurts that answers whether we’ve passed whatever test Hashem wanted us to go through. Definitely, find somebody to talk with if that’s what you need — but somebody other than this person who will actually hear you out and attempt to be of honest help to you.
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