RD- youre a bit bonkers, arent you?
to address the op- i cant understand why peoples’ pain is delegitamized because something happened that was worse. There was a guy in my dira when i was a bachur who decided that no-one was allowed to say “im starving”, because had starved in the holocaust. He also got mad when people complained of pain, remarking that people experienced worse in the holocaust. So i aske him, if i hack your arm off with a pickaxe, are you not gonna scream because people endured gehenom in the holocaust? and he shut up.