oy ski i feel horrible for you! how could she say that about you? doesnt this person have any tact? and how is telling someone else going to “help” you? it wasn’t like she suggested a way to fix it or whatever. sounds like pure gossip to me
and there is such a thing as judging someone to the other direction. just because i dress refined and more yeshivish than the rest of my family DOES NOT mean i want to marry a learning boy. before you call to suggest, find out what type i want so you don’t sound like a fool
(sorry for the last part. its drives me up the wall when my father tells me he had to say no right off the bat because the person couldn’t ask one simple question prior to calling)