i’m pretty sure we’re all discussing halacha here and not opinion, so don’t get high-and-mighty.
first of all, what difference does the wording betw those two make? why would one be muttar and the other assur?
second, no, i wasn’t trying to chance what was said to prove i was right, because i think the halachos i quoted still old true. Yes i misquoted the original, not to twist it, but because i copied it from another poster on this page. innocent error. my stance still applies.
i’m quite sure i admitted to possibly not knowing all halachos inside and out, but i sat with the C”C yesterday for an hour and those were quotes, not made up. If you give me a specific source in the C”C, i will gladly look it up.
and again, the discussion lately here is not abt the commment on tznius- which holds true for someone speaking up against it- but abt the extra insult which i terribly misquoted. to speak up in a way to bring attn to her dress, yes. to embarrass additionally, and without basis or knowledge of truth in her words, no.