Reply To: Why do some hard to please boys have to go out with a hundred girls?

I am having a hard time understanding your exasperation. We are talking about a man choosing the woman with whom he will spend the rest of his life and be his partner in all that he does. If a guy wants to be particular in this decision, I think that it is understandable even if it causes some shadchanium a a bit of frustration. Do you really expect someone to say “I don’t really think that she is for me, but this is the third girl that Mrs. Ploinis has redt to me so I guess I will marry her”?